And I just had to add, I know girls who fall for these girly ass dudes, and they end up playing them, cheating on them, blah blah blah cause they flirt with other girls. Just sayinnnnn.

And for people who don’t get it, im talking about a GUY dressing all girly and acting all girly, not the woman. I already had one person answer it the wrong way. Learn to read please. O__O

So, it’s pretty funny how this conversation started to be honest. I was talking to my best friend back in Jersey, Ryan, and we got into the topic on how women, and even guys go after a partner only because of their looks, instead of their personality, interests, life goals and everything else that has nothing to do with looks, sex, body traits, and what not. It’s relevant, because both of us have stopped “chasing” and just chilled back. I’m honestly not looking for a relationship atm, because of what happened to me last time (long story) and having your heart broken like that honestly isn’t worth it right now. But anyway, i’ll get more in-depth to what i’m talking about.

When do you ever hear a girl say to her friends “Hey, look at that guy over there. He seems like a kind-hearted guy, whos respectful, and he looks like a sensitive guy who knows how to treat a girl right and respect her always.” You NEVER hear that coming out of a girl’s mouth, EVER. Or even a guy if we’re talking about a guy talking about a girl. It’s always about the looks. Like, it gets kind of tiring when I see dudes go like “OMG, you’re like, so amazingly beautiful!” like EVERYDAY. I kinda think she gets the point, you think she’s beautiful. It even applies to girls going after guys. In my view, if you think i’m cute, then yeah i appreciate your comment. But if I hear it like 5 times everyday, don’t you think it gets kind of annoying? At least come up with a new word to use or something O__O.

Reasons like this are why relationships nowdays are so short. People go after the other person, BECAUSE OF THEIR LOOKS, AND HOW GOOD THEY ARE IN BED. Sure, sex is part of the relationship, and there’s nothing wrong with sex, AT ALL. But, if you’re just in a relationship just for sex, you’d might as well find a fuck buddy. There are other guys out there, who know how to actually treat a woman right, who have NO GIRLFRIENDS right now, cause douchebag idiots somehow always get the girl/guy. Think about it. Top 3 keys to a long lasting relationship are: Trust, Communication and Love for their Inner Beauty, not just Outer Beauty. Oh yeah, and we can throw in sex in there as well. :)

Oh, and to the guys who flirt with a girl, trying to get in her pants by saying a bunch of BS you don’t mean, you’re not a player, you’re just an awesome bullshitter/douchebag. How about you take a back seat, and let the real gentlemen show you how to respect a woman. Real talk.

So, followers, let me know what you think. Hate my post, or love my post?

Oh, and if you do highly dislike my post:

Here are my plain views on a working relationship, and I think both guys and women should read this, cause my tips/insights can really help you out, which is my goal here :)

Keys to a Long-Lasting Relationship:

• Similar interests: Both of you need to have similar interests, not all of them, but at least a good chunk of similar interests, especially musical taste. If the guy loves rap, but the girl hates it, there’s going to be problems. If having no similar interests is the issue, then there’s going to be a lot of hiding and lying in the relationship, as in pretending to like what the other does just to get in her/his heart. BE TRUE TO YOURSELF! CHOOSE WISELY! This is debateable though.
• Communication & Trust: Communication is an obvious key to a long lasting relationship. Trust is also in my Top 3 factors of keeping a long-lasting relationship. Trusting your partner means, not getting jealous if other guys/women talk to them, putting your trust in them to not do anything kinky with others, drunk or sober, or high, etc etc. Communication is an obvious key as well. Always keep in touch, so you don’t get bored and fall for someone else like that. Trust me, I’ve seen relationships fade away like that because of the lack of communication between partners.
• Be Yourself: Just be yourself. Don’t try to be someone that you’re not. That just means you’re a fake, and you’re entering in a relationship and as you do, she’ll fall for the fake you, not the real you. She will love you for who you are, not who you’re trying to be, SO BE YOURSELF!
• Get into a relationship for LOVE, not just SEX: A relationship thats based on love lasts longer than a relationship based on sex only, if that even exists (Friends with Benefits). Love somebody for who they are inside, not just you want to fuck them all the time cause of their assets. Outer beauty dies out eventually, but inner beauty lasts forever. Sex will always be there, but don’t make that your main priority. LOVE, TRUST, COMMUNICATIONS should go all before sex.

More to come in a few minutes or an hour or so. Thinking along the way, y’know?