So, it’s pretty funny how this conversation started to be honest. I was talking to my best friend back in Jersey, Ryan, and we got into the topic on how women, and even guys go after a partner only because of their looks, instead of their personality, interests, life goals and everything else that has nothing to do with looks, sex, body traits, and what not. It’s relevant, because both of us have stopped “chasing” and just chilled back. I’m honestly not looking for a relationship atm, because of what happened to me last time (long story) and having your heart broken like that honestly isn’t worth it right now. But anyway, i’ll get more in-depth to what i’m talking about.
When do you ever hear a girl say to her friends “Hey, look at that guy over there. He seems like a kind-hearted guy, whos respectful, and he looks like a sensitive guy who knows how to treat a girl right and respect her always.” You NEVER hear that coming out of a girl’s mouth, EVER. Or even a guy if we’re talking about a guy talking about a girl. It’s always about the looks. Like, it gets kind of tiring when I see dudes go like “OMG, you’re like, so amazingly beautiful!” like EVERYDAY. I kinda think she gets the point, you think she’s beautiful. It even applies to girls going after guys. In my view, if you think i’m cute, then yeah i appreciate your comment. But if I hear it like 5 times everyday, don’t you think it gets kind of annoying? At least come up with a new word to use or something O__O.
Reasons like this are why relationships nowdays are so short. People go after the other person, BECAUSE OF THEIR LOOKS, AND HOW GOOD THEY ARE IN BED. Sure, sex is part of the relationship, and there’s nothing wrong with sex, AT ALL. But, if you’re just in a relationship just for sex, you’d might as well find a fuck buddy. There are other guys out there, who know how to actually treat a woman right, who have NO GIRLFRIENDS right now, cause douchebag idiots somehow always get the girl/guy. Think about it. Top 3 keys to a long lasting relationship are: Trust, Communication and Love for their Inner Beauty, not just Outer Beauty. Oh yeah, and we can throw in sex in there as well. :)
Oh, and to the guys who flirt with a girl, trying to get in her pants by saying a bunch of BS you don’t mean, you’re not a player, you’re just an awesome bullshitter/douchebag. How about you take a back seat, and let the real gentlemen show you how to respect a woman. Real talk.
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